move on or move back in ??

Recently, a friend of mine still in love with his gf was plagued with a broken  heart. all i can do is offer him words of  encouragements. offer my ear to listen ( even xpernah  dengar pun suara dia..   :D ) with hopes of enlighten  the darkness. it is my responsibility as a fiend to  encourage him. 

heal your broken heart friend, 

u must know urself, love urself, and appreciate urself first. take time to analyze and evaluate. take time to define urself as an individual. time heals all wounds , tu yg kita selalu dengar kan ?  but do u really have to wait for time to heal these wounds? Absolutely not.! kan ?  then u got to decide where your going to go from  here. u don't want to feeling this way forever so  it's decision time. Will your life be better with or  without your ex. Now only u can answer this question. if it was a bad break up, then I'd say it's time  to move on and make yourself a better life.

u should give another chance to others too. bukan  hanya pasrah dgn segala. all i can says try it first.  try harder. put an enough effort to get knowing ppl.  masa ni la br boleh nmpk org sekeliling yg betul2  wujud utk u. life is too short to wake up in the  morning with regrets.  oh jgn lupa utk consider the  candidates A & B. :D they're the most really care  about u. ur life. who makes u happy for every single  simple thing in which u didnt expected at all before.  so, love  th ppl who treat u right, forget about the ones tht dont and believe tht everything happens for a  reason. mungkin takde jodoh kan. if u get a chance,  just take it, then u would be ok. insyaAllah. amin.

hati yg patah boleh dipulihkan. jgn risau. ( cewah,  mcm doctor) hehe,every 60 seconds  u spend upset is a  minute of happiness you'll never get back. smua yg  terjadi ada hikmahnya. di dalam  al- Quran ada menyebut, apabila kita tdk dapat apa yg kita nk, tu  mknanya kita akan diberi sesuatu yg lebih baik dr apa  yg kita nk. 

"Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu padahal ia amat baik  bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu,  padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang  kamu tidak mengetahui." -Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216 

Rasulullah SAW bersabda maksudnya:

“Apabila Allah menyayangi hamba-Nya maka dia diuji agar Allah mendengar rintihannya (dengan kerendahan diri).”   (Riwayat Al Baihaqi)

jgn rasa terbeban dengan ujian yg diberi kerana  ""Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai  dengan kesanggupannya." -Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286 

redha dan sabar dgn segala yg terjadi. u know wht ,.. u're lucky enough sbb pernah diberi nikmah utk rasa  disayangi. ada sesetengah org langsung xpernah & belum  berkesempatan utk merasa diri disayangi. seriously ada, *sigh*

berdoalah pd Allah seiklas hati. mintalah padaNya,..

cuba doa ini :

  "seandainya dia adlh org yg terbaik utk  aku, kehidupan  aku, masa depanku, Engkau permudahkanlah hubungan  antara aku dan dia. tapi jika sebaliknya, aku redha Ya  Allah. " 

insyaAllah Allah akan menerima doa hambaNya yg ikhlas.

if your relationship ended for a  reason,then maybe theres still a chance ( masih berharap dan tidak putus asa lg kan...) naah... If u feel  like life really can't go on with the lost love of  your life then getting your ex back maybe the answer.  yeah, maybe...  so here, u shud giving the relationship another go, (even if  your ex thinks they don't want to), is the obvious  choice to cure your broken heart. Then if u do  decide that the relationship isn't working out , just  make sure you dump them first!! >.< ( tu yg sepatutnya)

Everybody's story is different. almost everybody has felt the pain of unfulfilled desire . . . and suffered through it. and jyeah i pun pernah. Now, leave the past, skip over the present . . . and jump into the future.

wish u well. :)) InsyaAllah.

ah, bau rindu :)

really miss to do th things like we used to do together in last semester.

sgt sgt rindu housemates saya.. cepat la balik nanti ye.. nak main sama-sama.. 

rindu bau rumah 235 A,

rindu bilik saya, terutama bantal2 saya.. :((

wahh..rindu baju2 kat sana...harap tidak digigit lg...

rindu kedai runcit baling. :)

rindu nk naek motosikal..er, dan juga basikal jiran :))

rindu nk g shopping sama sama lg..

oh, rindu nk masak sama sama.. :))

rindu KEDAH la, dan segala isinya....

rindu mereke ni, housemates ;(

mira :)

sue. a.k.a siti :D

nana @ mama :))

pa'ah. bila tgk dia mesti teringat kek! any kind of cake la.:)

wani :))

wah, banyak kenangan best-best dengan mereka in last semester. 

oh, the new semester will be coming. just in a few days more to go

th early bird will be rewarded. ( in case sape2 yg balik awal dari yg lain dan cuci2 rumah)

hahhaa..harap2 kita semua bole cuci rumah same2 la.. kan sweeeeeeeeeett .. :D theheee..

wah, *excited* oh btw, i miss you all like crazy ! :)

cepat la balik. cepat la balik

hey, please lah, i nk study ni okay

hahha, hipokrit gila.

wups, tp mmg kene stdy pn malam ni. oh, dah patut start mlm ni la, utk INS 200. come on la nur, bila nk focus ni, asyik kne goda dgn makanan, wireless, dsbnya. ish...

oh besok pulak nuroll keyla nk dtg sp. dia dari kulim. kebetulan dia bercuti mgu ni so dia nk drop by rumah aku la.. nk lepak same. lama gila xlepak dgn dia.  damn! rindu kau keyla. esok i xboleh nk buat ape dekat INS 200 sebab i nk focus utk kawan i keyla tu. so mlm ni i kne study hard and smart supaya tidak kelewatan nanti. :))

keyla maybe akan stay umah i beberapa hari. xpun rumah rara. rara dan yg lain tiada paper selama 10hari rasanya so, enjoy sakan eh! aku jeles korg!!. hm btw, goodluck final nur. abah suruh tingkatkan prestasi dan pointer this sem. 

INSURANCE

nak baca slides or buku ?  dua dua actly xmelengkapi satu sama lain. buku kata lain, slides pn kata lain. *sigh* so mcm mana ni???

come on nur, jgn putus harapan dan semangat okay ... :))

( ha hambek, buat font besau punya! bia nmpak sikit semangat i nk study nih! )

photoshoot 235 A ( huh?, gred A ) walaweh...

tlg jgn kutuk. tutup mata jika xsuka... *tetttttt**

mula mula ramai ramai

L OV E

gadis melayu 2011

mama :D

alahai sopan gila

apa yang 3 tu mira ?? :))

airasia ke malaysia airlines ?

ok, mira hampir2 nk punch kat muka pa'ah. wee~

mata. semua pelik. hahhaha (jahat) sorry housemates.

*flying kiss* bye bye ppl. :))

lepas tu baru sorang sorang 

muka sepuluhsen

siakap. apa tadah ntah, macam siam

bentuk love ni cantik, :))

hampir hampir

dah habis... bye bye ppl, :))

meroyan malam buta

cuba tgk aksi dibawah,

the motif is nk show off the newly bag actually ppl, theheee

thats mine!

ok xkene .. :))

separated,

g u c c i and z a r a

censored

chop!! belum habis lg.. xmasuk photoshoot lg uh, tgk entry atas ye ppl, bye! :))

( p/s : semua gambar gambar yg terlibat TIDAK di edit sbb malas. jadi, maaf jika kualiti gambar tidak cantik ) 

rindu gila dekat alif danial!

oh my tuhan... sgt merindui dany. and adiks yg lain..

harap dany cepat sembuh dari chikenpox tu dan kembali aktif bermain mcm kanak kanak lain... :))

ni latest pic yg atie (adik no 5) mms dekat i last 3days.

if i ade kt rumah sekarang ni boleh la jaga dia. jadi nanny dia. suap makanan kat dia. 

layan kerenah buruk dia. tengking dia kalau xnk makan ubat, sapu ubat kat badan dia..

haish. kalau dany tau betapa caring nya kakak dia yg sorang ni. ye...sebelum ni mana nk tunjuk sgt. been busy dan mmg susah nk tunjuk sayang dekat adik2. sgt strict!! wah..heee mereka (adiks2) kene biasa la dgn kakak yg sulung mcm i ni ya! but hey, bfday present tiap2 sorang xpernah missed tau! ( eh yeke???)  

a day without you is like a year without rain

i'm missing you!

a happy family

Good relationship between loving couples makes a happy home. A happy home is the result of the rapport between a husband or wife. :)

Home, sweet home is the abode of all starting points in life. It is the place where relations and emotions find most expressions. It becomes a happy home when the mates living under the single roof have a cordial relationship with each other. 


The rapport you maintain with your spouse reflects in your personality, in your children, and in your home. It brings in a healthy environment for you and your siblings to enjoy life. But in this modern world we find that most couples find it difficult to maintain the bond. 


Here are ten tips to iron out the differences, sustain the affiliation and lead a cheerful life.


1. First and foremost you must begin to accept your spouse as he or she is physically and mentally. Your spouse may not be tall or have the sense of humor or have a lot of healthy habits but may be good in many other things. Look at the positive side and be happy with him or her.

Try to adjust to the maximum extent possible. Even then if it doesn’t work out, just leave it at that. Your spouse will realize the effort you have made and will come to terms with you.


2. Appreciation has its effect on every human being. It is the motivating factor for a human personality. So be honest and give sincere appreciation whenever your spouse deserves it. Don’t procrastinate or be stingy with your words.


3. The act of forgetting and forgiving is essential to the art of living. “To err is human”. So you must learn to overlook the mistakes of your spouses. Stored anger and silent resentment will drain away the enthusiasm and will make you stop living.


4. If you have done something wrong knowingly or unknowingly admit it. Don’t try to reason out when your spouse points out and drag it on.


5. Go hand in hand with your spouse in your life. Share your joys and sorrows however small they may be. There should be transparency in your relationship. Never hide a fact, thinking of imagined consequences.


6. Initially there may be two of you in a home. But as the family grows you will have more members to share your time. But make it a point to have a special time with your spouse as and when the time permits. This will strengthen the bondage.


7. Life has its ups and downs and its peaks and valleys. No one is always up or down all the time. Your spouse may go through a bad patch but you should be the pillar of support. Problems do come to an end. Give a helping hand to your spouse with patience till the problem crosses over.


8. Clashes of opinion do happen and quarrels do occur, as we tend to loose temper in the spur of the moment. But see that you don’t carry it to the next day.


9. Love is the undercurrent of life. When you follow a give and take policy in love as a spouse, then it becomes a commodity. Give unconditional love. There lies the secret of enjoyment. When you give without expectation it returns in manifolds.


Experience is the good teacher. Be in the present. We are not going to inherit anything knew because we have already inherited the greatest gift, which is our life. Live it. Live it with passion and intensity. By living your life every moment you observe the happenings and know the nuances of you r spouse. 


Create a rapport to sustain the relationship. Be with him or her and live life to the hilt.

i am a fast- learner. am i ? :D

:)

i love my past. i do love that

pll, i absolutely do not regret all of my past. i do love my past. my past such a good motivator for me. hence, i still can survive this life, still can live this life well. past is an experience. experience is a brutal teacher. but you learn. [wups, kne break jap nk buat asgnment azie da dtg. hehe,, to be continue...]

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thanks Nisa Farhana for a perfect lunch today, Rara Rera who is making a dinner tonight...both are awesome! love u babes

LEO

work hard : if u feel ignored, take responsibility for how u project urself and start acting and looking like a winner.

play hard : give ppl a chance and u 'll realise that the answer u need can come from the most unlikely places. trying to control it all will take the joy out of life.

singles in love : if someone tries to knock your confidence, he'll be the one with the problem so get out fast.

couples in love : his need for perfection could be draining but if u find a way to homour him, he'll love u forever!

saya buat bisnes!

yeay! ini percubaan pertama saya.. hehe buat bisnes jual baju kurung pelbagai fesyen terkini dan juga baju melayu... :))

so..agak sibuk la dlm mgu ni sbb nk manage benda ni. + nk pack brg2 utk g u nti..

seriously, xsbr rasa nk tempuh pengalaman jadi businesswomen ni...
wish me well ya.. <3

yang chantek saje... :))

hurmmmm knp aku xscantik org2 yg cantik?? haish,